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Jack Lawrence Neves was born in Oakland, California on November 8th 1936. He is a descendant of the Azores of Portugal who migrated from the shores of Portugal to the Hawaiian Islands.

Jack was an avid chess player, dancer and fisherman who won many awards doing so. Jack was truly a man of all trades; he was a bowler, hunter, constructor, magician and Rubik’s cube aficionado!

Jack is survived by his loving brother Gable and sister in-law Diana, his only child Gloria, his nieces, nephews, grandchildren and great grandchild.

Jack was no saint! He was a ladies man, who was married to his one true love, friend and foe Lillian Marie for 52 years.

Jack passed away on December 13, 2014. A friend to many and my father; we love Jack and will miss him dearly in this lifetime.

A graveside service will be held Saturday January 3rd, 2015 at 11:00 A.M. at the Copperopolis Cemetery in Copperopolis, CA

Longtime Alameda resident, and beloved son, husband, father, grandfather and friend, Rudolf “Rudy” Falkner died unexpectedly of a heart attack on Friday, December 26. He was 75.

Rudy is survived by his wife Maria and their three children, Susan Snyder (Dave), Elizabeth Crocker (Ken) and Greg Falkner (Kriste), their six grandchildren: Rachel and Grace Falkner, Matt and Jessica Snyder, and Samantha and Alexandra Crocker; and, his brother Fred (Teri) and niece Mary Falkner of New York.

Rudy was born in Slovenia and came to the United States with his parents, Fritz and Josefine Falkner, and brother in 1950. He married Maria in New York in 1962 and moved to Alameda in 1965. Rudy worked for Xerox for 25 years until 1990 when he took over his son's business, Fix It Falkner. Greg had started the business while in college and Rudy continued it for 15 more years.

Rudy and Maria caught the travel bug and enjoyed nine cruises, a pilgrimage to the Holy Land, followed by a safari, Mardi Gras in New Orleans, and a hike down the Grand Canyon. They celebrated their 25th anniversary with family friends Kathleen and Larry Branchaud in Australia and New Zealand, drove across the U.S.A. twice and Canada once, met Lonesome George in the Galapagos Islands, and rode bikes and backpacked in Yosemite and Lake Tahoe.

Following his diagnosis of Parkinson’s Disease, his most recent travels were limited to where he was the happiest—watching his grandkids on stage, on the playing field or in a marching band. Rudy's family and friends were always most important, including his weekly Panera coffee group, lunches with his daughters, and his mornings at the Alameda Elks gym with his son. Rudy was so proud of his children, his roses and grapes!

Memorial services will take place Friday, January 9, 2015 at 5 p.m. at the Alameda Elks Lodge #1015, 2255 Santa Clara Ave.

In lieu of flowers, please make donations to any of Rudy’s favorite causes: Alameda Elks Charity Fund, Girls Inc. of the Island City, Wounded Warriors and St. Jude's Research Hospital.

Joseph Scalise Jr. of Oakland, known as "Joe the Butcher," worked in and owned his family butcher shop for more than 56 years in Alameda. He died peacefully surrounded by his family on Friday, Dec. 19, 2014, at the age of 80.

Joe will be remembered as a truly great man who always gave people a helping hand in times of need. He was an honest man and devoted to his wife Patricia faithfully for 56 years. Joe lost his oldest son, Joey, in 1976 but managed to keep his family together and raise five wonderful children.

Joe was also a devout Catholic who was a parishioner of

Saint Paschal Baylon Church in Oakland for 49 years. Rarely, if ever, missing Sunday mass.

Joe graduated high school from St. Elizabeth’s in Oakland and graduated from the business school at Armstrong College in Berkeley.

Joe served his country in the United States Air Force during the Korean War from 1953 to 1957.

Joe is survived by his beloved wife Patricia; daughter Julie (Rich); sons: Jim (Marti), John (Mara) and Patrick (Gemma) and his six grandchildren: Christina (Chris), Ryan, Gabriella, Dominic, Mateo and Coco.

Services are planned for Saturday, Dec. 27, at St. Paschal Baylon 3700 Dorisa Ave. in Oakland. Viewing at 9:30 a.m. followed by full mass at 10:30 a.m.

In lieu of flowers, donations can be made in Joe’s honor to the Hanna Boys Center in Sonoma ( and to St. Paschal’s Church in Oakland’s "Building Fund" ( or 636-0335).

For further information, contact Harry W. Greer, funeral director or visit

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